the better half…


There is no greater feeling than that of being loved by your man. That feeling comes from knowing that you are loved and appreciated, and from seeing it from the actions of your lover. Much to the disappointment of many feminist group, allowing yourself as a woman to be vulnerable to your man yields beautiful rewards.

Let us just take a brief moment of recollection, and remember the drive that Django had to find an rescue the love of his life, Broomhilda from an evil slave master. Now ladies, a man that truly loves you will travel to the ends of the earth to be with you. He will slain the mightiest of dragons in your honor. A man will do all that is in his power to protect the woman he loves. Now, what woman wouldn’t want that for herself?

For a long time, I’ve always thought of how much I love my man, and how much I want to give him the best of me wholeheartedly, that I never once thought of how much he feels about me. Every time I looked at him, a voice would inside my head would go “God I love this man”. But today, a different tune sounded in my ears and it was that same voice, only now saying ” God this man loves me”. I really believe that there is good in men, and not all of them are heartless dogs…they just need to be given a chance to express their love for their partners in the best way that they know how. Of course, I’m not advocating for banning of date-night, and not buying flowers or gifts for us. I do, however think that we should go easy on our boys and cut them some slack. Maybe instead of always wanting them to understand, we should try to understand them for a change. Men are built to care and provide, and to protect. That’s their way of fulfilling their role, and inorder for us women to feel and experience all these things that we want from them, we need to allow our men to be men.

Its always good to meat eachother halfway…but its even better to go the extra mile. I’m for love everlasting…and believe that it truly does exist.


Be Good To Yourself…

Sometimes in life you try your best, but don’t succeed. You get what you want, but not what you need. You feel so tired, but you cannot sleep…ok, I’m quoting ‘Fix you’ by Coldplay.

But those qords are actually true, and sometimes you just gotta be that person that’ll fix you. There’s only so much the outside world can do to bring back the spark in you, but the rest is up to you. It is up to you to bring yourself back to the light.

How do we do this? By waking up each day, and reminding ourselves that we are worth every ounce of oxygen goin into our lungs. That we will cease every opportunity that the universe throws at us, and strive to male the most out everything we have in our lives…including the people that love and care of us.

Its very easy to fall into depression, and drown into the dark doubtful thoughts we have in our heads. It takes courage, however, to remove that chip off your shoulder and face the world “head held high”.